Hi everyone and welcome to my letter V post in the #AtoZChallenge. This was a hard letter to find a topic for, but with the help of The Year of You for Creatives I found one: personal values. Core values are the abstract qualities you find important in life, such as trust, love, connection, growth, etc.
Now I haven’t really ever taken the time to evaluate my core values, so it is quite hard to say whether they are reflected in my creativity. However, when I give it some thought, I realize one of my main core values is authenticity. This is still hard to express in my creativity, particularly my polymer clay. Like I said yesterday, after all, most of my creations are still pretty much copies of what I see online.
In my writing, I do try to express my authentic self. This does mean I am quite open about my experiences of, for example, mental illness. I used to overshare to the point where it got uncomfortable for the people around me. Now, though some of my relatives probably still perceive me as oversharing, I do try to be mindful of other people’s privacy.
Another of my core values is connection. This is reflected in the fact that I want to share what I create and know about other people’s creative work. This is one reason I have a blog. It is also one reason I started responding to people’s comments on my blog. For the first so many years that I kept a blog, I didn’t do this, because I felt it’d corrupt my stats somehow (don’t ask me why). I now not only know that engaging with your commenters is the ethical thing to do, but I also really value the connections I develop through interacting on my blog.
Connection is also a reason I’m in Facebook groups for polymer clay and why I share my creations on Facebook. I don’t really do Instagram, although I might want to learn to use it someday for my creative pursuits.
Self-determination is another core value. I initially wrote “independence”, but that doesn’t quite do it justice. Even though I’d really like to be independent, after all, that’s just not realistic where it comes to my crafting. I do, however, want to make my own choices and do as much as I can by myself.
Lastly, growth is a core value of mine. I always aim for progress, no matter how small. I do not always find this is reflected in my work, because I sometimes don’t see the progress I’ve made. I could really improve in this area.
Where did you get the idea that responding to comments would corrupt your stats? I’m so glad you did start responding! Its great to engage isnt it? I love it. I think you have a great list of core values and I am also wondering about the book the year of you is it accessible? through kindle? or where did you get it?
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The reason I thought that if I responded to comments a lot, that’d corrupt my stats, is because your own comments count towards your total comment count in your stats. Now I do reply to every comment (even to commenters who don’t seem to read my replies) and just keep that in mind when looking at my stats. It’s much more satisfying to be able to engage with my readers!
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Oh by the way, I got both The Year of You and The Year of You for Creatives on Apple Books and they’re accessible indeed. Not sure about the Kindle version but I’d think so too.
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Self determination is a sure way to move forward.
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Thank you. I agree.
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Respecting and propagating your core values is I think one of the most important thing to do.
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I agree completely!
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