Being a Snob

Hi everyone. Today, Sadje’s Sunday Poser is all about snobbery. I’ve always thought of being a snob as something negative, but being proud of your culture or an aspect of it can be a good thing too. So am I a snob?

In the positive sense, no, not at all. I don’t have a fine taste in art or food whatsoever. I actually love going to all-you-can-eat restaurants and hardly notice that the food isn’t good quality.

With respect to art or literature, my bestie and I have this inside joke about people not having read “Multituli”. We got the joke after a semi-famous Dutch writer having said that people outside of Amsterdam never read “Multituli” and are as such quite backwards. The actual pen name of the author is “Multatuli” and I actually did read his work, Max Havelaar back in high school, but other than a few random quotes, I hardly remember the story.

This brings me to my attitude and, yes, I can be a bit snobbish about my intelligence. I remember at one point talking to my assigned staff, the one who is still a student. She told me she was learning about attachment theory in school and, even though my comment wasn’t meant as bragging at all, it did come across as such to her. I told her I probably knew more about this topic than her. I probably do and this isn’t an advantage at all, hence my not having meant it as bragging. In fact, the fact that I know more about emotional development, attachment styles etc. than most of my staff, is quite a problem for me, as I cannot apply it to my actual life.

As a teen, I was quite a horrible snob, taking pride in my intelligence and my education. Now I realize I’m truthfully quite average. In other words, mediocre. This realization does often lead me to making self-deprecating comments. Yesterday, when my bestie and I were discussing Meta AI, I said that of course I’d objected to my data being used. My bestie commented that it makes sense that I don’t want AI to steal my pictures of my polymer clay. I immediately thought this was sarcasm and explained that, while most of my works are indeed based on tutorials and not all that good, that doesn’t mean I want AI to use them. It was only later that I realized my bestie may’ve been sincere.