Survey

Hi everyone. Today, I filled out a survey by the Dutch disabled people’s lobby group Ieder(in) on the quality of my care and its impact on my quality of life. I filled out the same questionnaire in 2023, a month or so before moving to my current home. Back then, I rated my quality of care 2 out of 10 and ticked almost every box on incidents I’d been involved in (as a target).

Today, I could think of only one incident box to tick: incidents due to lack of oversight, such as elopement. I mean, I myself have been aggressive towards staff, but that’s not what was meant. I also rated my quality of care 5 out of 10. That’s still not good enough, but it’s a lot better than it was back at the intensive support home. As my wife jokingly said, maybe in two years I’ll rate it 8 out of 10.

That’s not even entirely impossible, because as I explained in the field for additional comments, the bureaucratic framework for better care exists. By this I mean that I have a budget for one-on-one care that’s sufficient and that on most days, the home isn’t too short-staffed to provide me most of the care I need. What still makes me judge my quality of care as insufficient, is the fact that the way my care is organized in practice, doesn’t work for me.

There was a question about whether you have familiar staff or not. Back in 2023, I think I answered that I almost always had unfamiliar staff. Now I can’t remember which box I checked, but I did put into the comment boxes that the team including so-called regular temp workers is so large and new staff are oriented so chaotically that I essentially deal with a lot of near-strangers.

Speaking of which, my support coordinator thankfully agreed to another chance at orienting the new staff I mentioned on Saturday. Today, she attended my evening activity and we just chatted in order to get to know one another. I still feel some discomfort around letting her be oriented to my morning routine tomorrow, but agreed to it anyway. The fact that the staff even gave me a choice, shows improvement.

I must say I’m less willing to accept awful care now than I was two years ago. After all, let’s face it, almost no-one in the outside world accepts a random stranger into their house who refuses to leave and demands to do personal care tasks for them. I was forced to do exactly that until a year ago (and on Thursday, but thankfully my support coordinator changed that). In that sense, I wish there were a question on the survey asking me how my care compares to two years ago. I mean, in early 2023 I wrote a pretty cynical post about a day with optimal care. I reread it just now, thinking I’d claimed my care was actually optimal back then. I fully intended to contrast my revised idea of what constitutes “optimal care” now with my screwed view back then. Thankfully, my perception wasn’t as screwed in 2023 as I thought it was. In fact, I said pretty much the exact same thing I said on the questionnaire today: the framework is okay, but the practical reality isn’t. I do feel my reality is better though than it was then.