Hi everyone. It’s nearly 9:30PM as I start typing my #WeekendCoffeeShare post, so no more coffee for me. I just had a cup of orange-flavored green tea. Feel free to grab a cup of your favorite beverage and let’s chat.
If we were having coffee, first I’d talk about the weather. It’s cold, windy and snowy thanks to weather phenomenon Anna in Scandinavia. I can deal with the cold, but the wind and snow are rather annoying.
If we were having coffee, then I’d share that I haven’t really been moving much lately. I signed up for the free trial of Apple Fitness+ a few weeks ago, but canceled it on Thursday because it kept getting in my way when I tried to change my workout type on my Apple Watch. Not that I’ve done much other than walking, but I did try to dance once and somehow my watch kept messing up.
If we were having coffee, next I’d say that I’ve been struggling quite badly over the past few days. My day schedule is still a never-ending battle, I still haven’t heard from the Center for Consultation and Expertise consultant and on top of that the behavior specialist responsible for my home will be going on maternity leave soon. Yesterday, I also found out that I won’t be getting a new assigned staff now that my assigned staff is going to be my support coordinator. It wouldn’t have been a problem, had she had enough time in her work week to be both support coordinator for ten clients and my assigned staff, but she doesn’t. Staff keep saying I can go to any staff with my concerns, but this is actually not going to work for me with everyone having different opinions and no-one ever taking responsibility for so-called team decisions.
I had a meltdown over this whole thing yesterday. Staff kept arguing with me that I am too needy of my assigned staff and I have the capacity to understand the staffing situation so I don’t need an assigned staff. That last comment was made when I said the other clients often cling to their assigned staff people too. I’m honestly fed up with all the claims that I’m fundamentally different from every other client.
If we were having coffee, I would share that I quit Morning Pages already. I started on January 1, but last night hardly slept at all, so I decided I was lying down after breakfast again. Besides, the app I used won’t let me browse entries with VoiceOver, so I can never read what I wrote. Not that you’re supposed to for a while when you’re truly doing The Artist’s Way, but eventually I wish I could check back.
If we were having coffee, I’d finally share something positive: I’ve been crafting again this past week. On Tuesday, I made yet another polymer clay cheer up frog and, on Thursday, I made a unicorn with seed beads for its eyes. The frog, I once again made in record time: just over twenty minutes. And it’s awesome.
Yesterday, I was talking to my assigned staff / support coordinator about possibly making the unicorns and cheer up frogs to be sold at the care agency gift shop in the next town. The reason I went into it wasn’t altogether positive, namely the fact that another resident now has to pay for support to accompany him to his football and I’m scared that, eventually, the higher-ups will decide polymer clay isn’t “work” so I’ll have to pay for one-on-one support with that too. However, I do like the idea.

Not a fan of snow either, so hope spring will come sooner than later. First thing I saw when I came to your blog is that cute little frog. I like the sun star on his middle a lot! It would be nice if you could sell some, maybe some day it can be worked out. Wishing you a Happy New Year! ❤
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Thanks so much for your kind comment. Thankfully we don’t get snow here that often. Thanks a lot for the compliment on my frog.
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You’re welcome! 🙂
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We’ve had no snow here yet, England has, just not where I live. It is cold though!
Sorry you are finding things a struggle at the moment. I can understand your frustration and I agree that you need an assigned staff member that you can go to with your concerns. It seems wrong that you are getting less care just because you can understand the staffing situation.
That frog is just adorable! Fantastic work!
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Thanks so much for your caring comment. Thanks also for the compliment on my frog. Re my care, I don’t exactly get less care, in fact with my one-on-one hours I get more support than the other residents. It’s just that the staff don’t understand why I especially would need an assigned staff. It’s hard because sometimes I’m treated like I can advocate for myself fully independently and sometimes I’m treated like I need lots of support etc.
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The crafting is really positive Astrid, I hope you get to sell your creations! It is really cold here too! We’ve got sleet, ice, frost, wind, and possible snow in the morning!
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Oh yuck about your weather. We got more snow today. Thanks for your kind comment.
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Sorry to hear you’ve been struggling, Astrid. I hope the staff situation works out for you soon and you continue enjoying doing arts and craft. The frog looks adorable. Thank you for your weekend coffee share. Best wishes for 2026.
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